SOOOOOOOO THIS IS FOR MY FELLLASSS!!!
I have to share something w. my male friends real quick.
So my homegirl is talking to me about how she basically messed around on her man... so we are discussing WHY would she do such a thing? But before we go into that she talks about HOW AMAZING this experience was.
MIND YOU they didnt even have SEX.
MIND YOU she STILL thinking about it.
MIND YOU she WOULD go back for more.
Ok so what HAPPENED??!!!
Long story short it was a night of passionate, ass grabbin, body yokin, tongue kissin, lip nibbling, touching feeling...basically foreplay to the FULLEST. And what she loved the most is that he was YOKIN DAT ISH UPPPPPP! Now if you are not familiar with this term it means just taking control. O'l boy was going for what he wanted...and she was enjoying every moment of this. Nothing more attractive than a man who can non-verbally express how BADDD he wants the cookies, and then what MAKES it even BETTER is when he doesnt really ask he just takes (under the right circumstances of course!).
Now what about the BOYFRIEND??
Her boyfriend is a nice guy BUT she's on her Adina Howards ish ( one hit wonder who sings) freak in the mawwwninn freak in the eveninnnn..just like me i want a rough neckk niggah that cann satisfy meee..) wheww okay sorry thats my JAMMMM i was getting in2 it! back to the boyfriend ... sooo after her passionate night of dry humpin w. Ol boy this caused her to spazz on her man because one night while they were in bed he DECIDED to start rubbing on her leg..and then fall asleep -____- all b.c she was on her laptop.
My girl goess off on him saying and i QUOTE " Yoo wtf do u wanna have sex...he says "yeaa" ...she goes well then" SLAM MY LAPTOP SHUT, THROW IT ON THE FLOOR...AND GET TO EATEN THESE COOKIESS..NIGGAH" bahahahahhahawahahahahha ...question is whyyyy does she have to say this to her MAN???? like u dont even have to do anythinggg...u put in all the work already... like seriously...she's so frustrated b.c she is always the one pouncin on dis niggah..smh.
Moral of this story... fellas if you got a girl that your with, or thats diggin you ....alll that timid.. tryna be extra respectful ish gotta get tossed out the window... MAN UP, say what you want and go GET IT... FINE! GO AHEAD and keep waitin and chillin...cuz pretty soon she is going to be over always initiating convo, sex or whatever else.. and you'll be in the SAME situation as my friends boyfriend. Let this be a Lesson ...DONT say I didnt warn you!!
Goodnight
-inspired by my friends story!! Love this crazy girl.
p.s i DO NOT CONDONE cheating under anyy circumstance, but unfortunately it happens for reasons such as this!
-urs truly
November 28, 2011
November 26, 2011
Love Me ANYWAY :)
Soooooooo!! THE VIDEO IS OUT!!!
Recently shot Cee-Lo Green's newest Single "Anyway". The video came out a few days ago, and I want to share a behind the scenes Video Diary of what myself and the other Principle Ladies were feeling at that exact moment. Video pretty much SAYS IT ALL . Enjoy :)
Recently shot Cee-Lo Green's newest Single "Anyway". The video came out a few days ago, and I want to share a behind the scenes Video Diary of what myself and the other Principle Ladies were feeling at that exact moment. Video pretty much SAYS IT ALL . Enjoy :)
Now with all that said! Check out Myself (Michelle Mitchenor), Mckenzie Fyre, J lyn, and Katrina Pettiford in the final version of the video! Watching this reminds me of when I was little girl singing in the bathroom mirror!Dreams are real..and can be reality if you just SPEAK them! Keep pushin :)
-Urs Truly
November 13, 2011
Alone.
"Dance like noone's watching , because they probably arent "
" If your heart is bleeding make the best of it, there is heat in freezing, be a testament " :)
Poem written and performed by the amazing Tanya Davis
So you "WANT" a Man
Alright so Ive been asked my opinion on why there are so many single females. And how I feel about dating and stuff. Now I'm not an expert in ANY way, I'm still young trying to figure my shit out as well, but here it goes. Ive broken it down to few of the MAIN reasons, I personally feel some women aren't able to get that male attention they would like.
1. Date Yourself
- All these #Notebook tweets and dream world relationships that happens in movies are NOT real life. If you are sitting around waiting for all of that you will continue to be single for awhile. What you should be doing on a daily basis is CONSTANTLY work on bettering yourself as a woman. You NEED to date yourself be4 you can expect ANY man to A. Respect you and B. want to wife you. All of this to say, RELAX he's going to come, stop going way out your way putting energy in finding a man who "understands you" when you have NOT one clue who the hell you are. So the SAME drill Sergeant questions you be trying to ask a man on the first date, you should ask yourself as well. Knowing yourself will give you a more attractive glow, and you will OOZEE confidence. Once you got that in order, you'll be asking me WHICH guy you should pick and not how to get one. KnowingSelf=Confidence=Attractive=Cant keep men out cha face!
2. What Do you have to offer?
- When thinking about this "ideal" guy, do you have ideal qualities to match? For example
Most females would like a male that can take her out, be a gentleman, funny, goodlooking, has money (lets be real ya'l know its true) and about A BILLION other things. So lets take a moment and check yourself at some point, do have the funds to take him out? you want him to be a gentleman , but are you ladylike? Are you able to follow up with a funny comeback after he makes you laugh,.. umm do YOU have money? I understand that the man is suppose to be the dominate and/or protector of a relationship, but a TRUE queen possess all of these qualities and then some, lets her king Run the Throne (as long as he's not sabotaging shit of course) AND then more than capable of running shit on her own. I could be wrong, but the right guy ain't tryna let you go knowing that his potential girl knows when to be submissive and then can switch it up and be a BOSS.
3. Dont be a Scarecrow !
Meaning HAVE A BRAIN, and if you dont have one then unfortunately you probably will never be promoted to #wifeystatus. Being ONLY drop dead gorgeous (in my opinion) pretty much will just leave you at #fuckbuddystatus. I'm not saying be Einstein, but you have to have some sort of substance to you and be more than capable of holding an intelligent conversation. Or even if your'e not "smart" just knowing whats going on in the world i.e watching the news, reading, and being aware of notable and/or recent movies will get you far. Basically have something to talk about and HAVE AN OPINION!!!!!
4. Lower Your Expectations
NOW wait, wait before you start getting a 'tude I said lower your expectations NOT your standards. That's two completely different things. What I mean is we have to stop thinking that the "perfect" guy is going to find your glass slipper and come galloping after you on his horse. And when you do start dating you cant expect a man to just know everything you like and don't like...us women are crazy and it takes time to learn us. He's a man so he's gonna fuck up b.c dudes are really dumb, but you have to speak up and SAYYYYY how you feel. I'm convinced that when men were created , picking up on clues was NOT thrown in the mix lol, just say how you feel so that he understands you more and this goes for the smallest thing. Also if your not wifey yet you cant expect him to do wifey things...its just not going to happen. My suggestion is during the "dating/getting to know" eachother phase approach it as a growing friendship, just be chill stop fb stalkin and tweetin tryna figure that nigga out. Stop planning your future together after date 1..relaxxxxx enjoy the friendship, the flirting, and all the other cute shit that happens before shit gets deep. Understand that he's human and not a fictional character and know that NO man is going to treat you like HIS queen until you've earned that role in his life.
5. PRESENTATION
Lastily, be aware of how you present yourself this is in ALL areas, even though men be trying to front like they dont be low key stalking, TRUST and believe they DO. They are looking at the things you say on social sites, they are for sure watching you in public when you're not paying attention, how you dress, how you speak, how you interact w.others. So if you on twitter looking like a desperate lonely woman that's NOT poppin or if your sounding like an angry just hate all men type of woman...ummm yeaa NO BUENO. Dress classy, have a likeable personality so when he sits back and stalks you he is understanding the type of female you are. Everything in life is about the presentation, if you don't present yourself in a wifey manner.. you wont be a wifey chick. #TRUTH
That was alot, and I could go on forever, but forreal ladies, dating is only has hard and complicated as you make it. Just live ya life and relaxxx he'll come when you least expect it :) .
-urs truly
1. Date Yourself
- All these #Notebook tweets and dream world relationships that happens in movies are NOT real life. If you are sitting around waiting for all of that you will continue to be single for awhile. What you should be doing on a daily basis is CONSTANTLY work on bettering yourself as a woman. You NEED to date yourself be4 you can expect ANY man to A. Respect you and B. want to wife you. All of this to say, RELAX he's going to come, stop going way out your way putting energy in finding a man who "understands you" when you have NOT one clue who the hell you are. So the SAME drill Sergeant questions you be trying to ask a man on the first date, you should ask yourself as well. Knowing yourself will give you a more attractive glow, and you will OOZEE confidence. Once you got that in order, you'll be asking me WHICH guy you should pick and not how to get one. KnowingSelf=Confidence=Attractive=Cant keep men out cha face!
2. What Do you have to offer?
- When thinking about this "ideal" guy, do you have ideal qualities to match? For example
Most females would like a male that can take her out, be a gentleman, funny, goodlooking, has money (lets be real ya'l know its true) and about A BILLION other things. So lets take a moment and check yourself at some point, do have the funds to take him out? you want him to be a gentleman , but are you ladylike? Are you able to follow up with a funny comeback after he makes you laugh,.. umm do YOU have money? I understand that the man is suppose to be the dominate and/or protector of a relationship, but a TRUE queen possess all of these qualities and then some, lets her king Run the Throne (as long as he's not sabotaging shit of course) AND then more than capable of running shit on her own. I could be wrong, but the right guy ain't tryna let you go knowing that his potential girl knows when to be submissive and then can switch it up and be a BOSS.
3. Dont be a Scarecrow !
Meaning HAVE A BRAIN, and if you dont have one then unfortunately you probably will never be promoted to #wifeystatus. Being ONLY drop dead gorgeous (in my opinion) pretty much will just leave you at #fuckbuddystatus. I'm not saying be Einstein, but you have to have some sort of substance to you and be more than capable of holding an intelligent conversation. Or even if your'e not "smart" just knowing whats going on in the world i.e watching the news, reading, and being aware of notable and/or recent movies will get you far. Basically have something to talk about and HAVE AN OPINION!!!!!
4. Lower Your Expectations
NOW wait, wait before you start getting a 'tude I said lower your expectations NOT your standards. That's two completely different things. What I mean is we have to stop thinking that the "perfect" guy is going to find your glass slipper and come galloping after you on his horse. And when you do start dating you cant expect a man to just know everything you like and don't like...us women are crazy and it takes time to learn us. He's a man so he's gonna fuck up b.c dudes are really dumb, but you have to speak up and SAYYYYY how you feel. I'm convinced that when men were created , picking up on clues was NOT thrown in the mix lol, just say how you feel so that he understands you more and this goes for the smallest thing. Also if your not wifey yet you cant expect him to do wifey things...its just not going to happen. My suggestion is during the "dating/getting to know" eachother phase approach it as a growing friendship, just be chill stop fb stalkin and tweetin tryna figure that nigga out. Stop planning your future together after date 1..relaxxxxx enjoy the friendship, the flirting, and all the other cute shit that happens before shit gets deep. Understand that he's human and not a fictional character and know that NO man is going to treat you like HIS queen until you've earned that role in his life.
5. PRESENTATION
Lastily, be aware of how you present yourself this is in ALL areas, even though men be trying to front like they dont be low key stalking, TRUST and believe they DO. They are looking at the things you say on social sites, they are for sure watching you in public when you're not paying attention, how you dress, how you speak, how you interact w.others. So if you on twitter looking like a desperate lonely woman that's NOT poppin or if your sounding like an angry just hate all men type of woman...ummm yeaa NO BUENO. Dress classy, have a likeable personality so when he sits back and stalks you he is understanding the type of female you are. Everything in life is about the presentation, if you don't present yourself in a wifey manner.. you wont be a wifey chick. #TRUTH
That was alot, and I could go on forever, but forreal ladies, dating is only has hard and complicated as you make it. Just live ya life and relaxxx he'll come when you least expect it :) .
-urs truly
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